This is a copy of the message I originally sent to Dan via private
email containing the programming instructions from the service manual:

First off, make sure the new remote has the same part number on the
back as the two remotes you already have. It should read:

P/N SET:35011-KA, Tx:72147-KA
FCC ID: E4EG8DJ
CANADA: 850 102 302/210
G8D-452H-A

No amount of programming is going to make an incompatible unit work
with your car (found that out the hard way!). There are fifteen
steps to programming the remotes (found on page 22-149 in the 2000
Insight Service Manual):

1. Turn the ignition switch on (II).
2. Within 1 to 4 sec., push the transmitter lock or unlock button
with the transmitter aimed at the receiver (control unit). [MY NOTE:
I have found you just need be sitting in the drivers seat and hold it
anywhere]
3. Within 1 to 4 sec., turn the ignition switch OFF.
4. Within 1 to 4 sec., turn the ignition switch ON (II).
5. Within 1 to 4 sec., push the transmitter lock or unlock button
with the transmitter aimed at the receiver (control unit).
6. Within 1 to 4 sec., turn the ignition switch OFF.
7. Within 1 to 4 sec., turn the ignition switch ON (II).
8. Within 1 to 4 sec., push the transmitter lock or unlock button
with the transmitter aimed at the receiver (control unit).
9. Within 1 to 4 sec., turn the ignition switch OFF.
10. Within 4 sec., turn the ignition switch ON (II).
11. Within 1 to 4 sec., push the transmitter lock or unlock button
with the transmitter aimed at the receiver (control unit).
12. Confirm you can hear the sound of the door lock actuators.
Within 1 to 4 sec., push the transmitter lock or unlock button again.
13. Within 10 sec., aim the transmitters (up to three) whose codes
you want to store at the receiver, and press the transmitter lock or
unlock buttons. [MY NOTE: same as #2, you can hold it anywhere while
sitting in the drivers seat]
14. Turn the ignition switch OFF, and pull out the key.
15. Confirm proper operation with the new code(s). [MY NOTE: test
each remote out to make sure it works. My mistake originally was not
following step #12 precisely. The remote you were using during steps
1 through 11 must be pressed in step #12. I kept stepping over that
operation and wound up never programming that particular remote].

Robert
Silver, '00-#4581

--- In honda-hybrid@y..., "boogetyboogety" <joeluna@m...> wrote:
> Dan, did you ever get a reply to this message? I am in the same
> situation (extra keyless remote, can't program it) and would
> appreciate help from someone. Thanks.
>
> Joe, 01-2554
> amadoenterprises@m...
>
>
> --- In honda-hybrid@y..., "danhausman" <danhausman@y...> wrote:
> > Can anyone help me. I want to program a honda keyless entry
> remote
> > with my '00 insight. I would like to save myself a trip to the
> > dealership. Thanks.
> >
> >
> > -Dan