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Flirting is a very important part of getting into
the whole dating scene. Without it, no one would
know whether or not you were even interested. The
most important aspect of flirting is not in what
you say, but rather what you do. The body language
that you use is the biggest signal that you can
send out.

One of the most important things is to keep your
body loose and open. If you were to be tense and,
for instance, have your arms and legs crossed,
someone will see this as you not being interested
or closed up within yourself and they will likely
not approach you. Let your arms hang loose and
move them as you talk. Sit up straight, but not
rigidly. And make sure that you make eye contact.

The eyes are another important part. A well known
adage calls the eyes “the window to the soul.” Use
this to your advantage. Look into a prospective
partners eyes and let them know that you are
interested. After you have established contact,
you can use your eyes to flirt further by batting
your eyelashes or looking shyly at the ground.

Touch is also an important component to flirting.
Putting your hand on someone’s knee or shoulder
while talking to them gives them a sense that your
attention is on them and them alone. This is very
important when flirting. You do not want the other
person’s eyes to be wandering the room in search
of someone else. Draw their focus to you.

One must remember that there are no real rules to
flirting and body language. You should do whatever
you feel the most comfortable with. These are just
a few general things that will help you along the
way. Just remember, flirting is the first line of
offense the leads to many dating experiences.



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